Conversation about Parenting and Challenges
Just come here.
Why are you carrying her around like that?
Why are you carrying her around like that?
Her wheelchair is just broken.
Her wheelchair is broken. Is this your daughter?
Is this your daughter? Take this girl.
This girl spoke. This, this is a mic.
My name is Omar, and I want to talk to you for a bit.
Go ahead. Here, take the mic from
me so I can communicate with you
and hear
clearly. Let's see what he'll say.
I only take her out to the square for a little while,
but her wheelchair is
broken, so I carry her.
I took her out.
So this is your daughter. This really is your daughter.
Yes.
And I walk around with her like this in the street.
Yes, man, she means the world to me.
It's very hot.
No, I walk her in the shade.
I don't take her out in the heat.
What made me take her out today
is that the weather is mild.
May God set things right
for you and provide for you.
So where's her mother? Where's her mother?
May God keep her mother away from her.
But why is she afraid to breastfeed?
She left her when she was two years old.
Why doesn't she breastfeed? Why is she afraid?
Huh?
Why is she afraid? Why doesn't she breastfeed?
I’m not afraid of her standing,
I’m just afraid that if I leave her,
she’ll fall.
Yes, she can’t stand.
No, she can’t stand on her own.
Okay.
She can stand on her own. She’s
holding onto me because I’m steady.
I mean, with everything around you,
you’re still a content and happy man.
Yes, thank God.
Really.
Thank God, I swear. But I wish for one thing.
What do you wish for?
I wish I had a business so I
could sit with her by my side.
A business that would let me sit with her by my side.
Something that brings in
income so we can live off it,
because Sahar has a lot of expenses.
That’s true.
That’s your Sahar.
Because she has expenses, she wears Pampers.
And I’m content with whatever God gives us.
Are you staying somewhere?
What?
Are you staying somewhere?
Yes, I live here on Al-Four Street.
Really, what do you do for work?
I don't work. I stay at home.
You stay at home, anyway.
Yes.
So where do you get money from?
I'll tell you.
May God be generous to you.
May God protect you.
God willing, kind people will stand by you.
May God keep you safe,
you and everyone who stands by her.
What can you do?
Anything, any job, as long as I can stay by her side.
You're very kind. It's just a small thing.
Okay, anyway.
Just a small thing.
Get well soon.
And you too.
Okay.
God willing, you're very kind.
How can someone get in touch with you?
How can someone get in touch with you?
Is your number with you on your phone?
Okay, I'll get it from you.
What did Sama go off to do?
What do you want her to do?
You want her to bump into it.
She's just pulling on it.
How is she breaking it?
It's okay, okay, okay. It's fine for her. No problem.
May God bless you, and anyone who stands by her.
But the chair is there.
Yes, the chair is there, but it's broken now.
Let her do whatever she wants. Let her be.
O God, I have accepted all that
You have written for me, so mend
my heart and make what is to come in
my life all good.
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Original transcript (Arabic)
تعالى بس. انت شايلها ومشي بيها كده ليه؟ شايلها ومشي بيها كده ليه؟ الكرسي بتاع مكسور بس. كرسي بتاع مكسور. دي
بنتك. دي بنتك. خد البنس ده. البنس ده اتكلم. ده ده مايك. انا اسمي عمر وبغى اتكلم معاك شوية. اتفضل بس. وهنا خد مني المايك عشان اعرف اتواصل معاك
وتسمع صوت كويس. تعالوا نشوف هيقول ايه. ده انا بطلعها في الساحة شوية بس الكرسي بتاعها منه مكسور شلتها
خرجتها. يعني دي بنتك. يعني دي بنتك بجد. اه. وبمشي بيها كده في الشارع. اه مااا مااا ده انا عندي دي بالدنيا دي.
الجو حر اوي. لا ده انا بمشيها في الضيل ما بمشيش بيها في الحر. وحيل الله اللي مخليني مخرجها النهاردة عشان الجو طراوة.
الله يصلح حالك ويرزقك. امال مامتها فين؟ مامتها فين؟ مامتها الله يسترها منها. بس هي خايفة ترضعش ليه؟
سايبها وهي عندها سنتين. ما ترضعش ليه؟ خايفة ليه؟ ها؟ خايفة ليه ما ترضعش ليه؟ مش خايفة ده هي منها
واقفة بس خايفة ان انا اسيبها تقوم واقعة. اه هي ما تعرفش تقف. لا ما تعرفش تقف لوحدها. خلاص.
تقف لوحدها. هي ماسكة بيا عشان ثابتة. انا قصدي مع كل اللي حواليك ده انت برضو راجل راضي ومبسوط. اه الحمد لله.
بجد. الحمد لله والله. بس انا نفسي في حاجة واحدة. نفسك في ايه؟ نفسي في مشروع عشان اقعد واقعدها جنبي.
مشروع يتعمل لي اقعد واقعدها جنبي. يدخل لي دخلة وهي نصرف منه. لان سحر مصاريفها كتير أصلًا.
دي سحرك. لان هي بتصرف بتلبس بامبرز. وانا راضي بكل اللي ربنا يجيبه. انتو قاعدين في مكان؟ ها؟
قاعدين في مكان؟ اه ساكن هنا في شارع الفور. بجد تشتغل ايه؟ اني ما بشتغلش ده انا قاعد بيتي. قاعد بيتك اصلا.
اه. امال بتصرف منين؟ ها قول لك. ربنا يكرمك. ربنا يسترك.
واهال الخير هيقفوا جنبك ان شاء الله. ربنا يخليك يا رب انت وكل اللي يقف جنبها. بتعرف تعمل ايه؟ لا اي مشروع وانا قاعد جنبها.
اهل خير كتير. ودي حاجة بسيطة كده. ماشي اصلا. حاجة بسيطة. سلامتك. وحضرتك طيب.
ماشي. وان شاء الله اهل خير كتير. ولما حد يحب يوصل لك يوصل لك ازاي؟ لما حد يحب يوصل لك يوصل لك ازاي؟ رقمك معاك على الموبايل.
خلاص انا هاخده منك. وسما راحت تعمل ايه يا عايزها تعمل ايه يا عايز تخبط فيها. بتشد وبس.
بتكسر ازاي؟ عادي عادي عادي فداها عادي. مش مشكلة. ربنا يخليك انت واي حد يقف جنبها يا رب. بس الكرسي موجود. اه الكرسي موجود بس مكسور بقى.
سيبها تعمل اللي هي عايزاه. سيبها سيبها. اللهم اني رضيت بكل ما كتبته لي فاجبر خاطري واجعل القادم في حياتي كله خير.