Hindi → English transcript
It doesn’t take girls any time to find a boyfriend.
What takes time for girls is finding a guy who is husband material.
Now what happens is,
there are many guys you’ll see in everybody’s DMs. In the DMs of ten guys,
then in the DMs of fifteen guys.
All right, and on the very first day they will tell you that they feel attraction,
that they are very much in love with you, that they cannot live without you.
First of all, this kind of love does not happen in one day. All right.
You have to give any relationship time. All right.
If you want to enter any relationship,
first you will understand each other,
you will do things for one another, you will show effort, only then
do you come to know whether the person in front of you is right for you or not.
Okay. You cannot judge someone like that in one day, or say in one day that you’ve
caught feelings for me or I’ve caught feelings for you.
The second thing is that some girls are also like this,
like, say they are in their 20s,
they are going clubbing, partying,
enjoying late nights and they really like having a male best friend.
Now what happens is,
if you are sharing your beauty here and there… if you look good,
you are good looking,
and you are giving attention to 10 or 15 guys and you are the same with everyone…
then your beauty does not matter anymore. Okay.
What happens then is that every guy will just have fun with you. Right?
And when you come out of your 20s, right, then you will
realize that the guy I wanted in my life or the kind of guy I needed in my life,
like husband material, I am not finding that guy now. Because what happens is,
when you reach your thirties, then you look for settlement.
You will see that the guy should be good, he should look good too,
the guy should be good looking, fine, what I just explained to you,
the guy should have money… fine, the guy should be loyal, first of all.
All right. Now that loyalty…
at that time in your thirties you will want all this. In your twenties…
if you had wanted,
you could have stayed with one person. In your twenties,
if you have had your fun in your twenties,
then if you expect that same thing in your thirties,
it may be that you do not get it in your thirties. That thing becomes very rare.
So what I mean is, belong to just one person,
okay, and stay loyal to that one person… Because in this world,
chances do not come again and again,
good guys are hard to find and good girls are also hard to find,
this applies to boys too.
End of transcript · 483 words · machine translated
Original transcript (Hindi)
Ladkiyon ko na boyfriend dhoondhne mein time nahi lagta. Ladkiyon ko time lagta hai husband material ladke dhoondhne mein. Ab kya hota hai, kai ladke aise hote hain jo har logon ke DM mein aapko dikhenge. Ab kya hota hai, kai ladke aise hote hain jo har logon ke DM mein aapko dikhenge. 10 bandon ke DM mein, phir 15 bandon ke DM mein.
Theek hai, aur wo pehle din hi aapko bol denge ki mujhe attraction hai, mujhe aapse bahut pyaar hai, main aapke bina reh nahi sakta. Pehli baat to ye pyaar ek din mein hota nahi hai. Theek hai. Kisi bhi rishte ko time dena padta hai. Theek hai. Agar aap kisi bhi rishte mein aana chahte hain to aap pehle ek dusre ko samjhenge, ek dusre ke liye kuch na kuch karenge, efforts dikhayenge,
tab jaake aapko pata lagta hai ki saamne wala insaan aapke liye sahi hai ki nahi hai. Theek hai. Aap aise kisi ko judge nahi kar sakte ek din mein ya ek din mein aap aise nahi bol sakte mere liye aapke liye feelings aa gayi hain. Dusri cheez kya hai ki kuch ladkiyan bhi aisi hoti hain, jaise maan lo 20s ki age mein hain, wo clubbing kar rahi hain, party kar rahi hain, late night enjoy kar rahi hain aur male best friend rakhna unhe bahut pasand hai. wo clubbing kar rahi hain, party kar rahi hain, late night enjoy kar rahi hain aur male best friend rakhna unhe bahut pasand hai.
Ab kya hota hai ki aap apni khubsurti agar kahin baant rahe hain... Ab kya hota hai ki aap apni khubsurti agar kahin baant rahe hain... agar aap dikhne mein acche hain, good looking hain, aur aap 10 ladkon ko ya 15 ladkon ko bhaav de rahe hain aur aap sabke liye ek jaise hain... to aapki khubsurti phir matter karti nahi hai.
Theek hai. Kya hota hai ki wo phir har koi banda aapse maze lega. Right? Aur jab 20s ki age se aap bahar aa jaoge na, to phir aapko realize hoga ki jo ladka main chah rahi thi apni life mein Kyunki kya hota hai phir aap jab 30s ki age mein aaoge tab aap settlement dekhoge. Aap dekhoge ladka accha hona chahiye dikhne mein bhi, ladka good looking ho,
theek hai jo maine aapko explain kar diya abhi, ladke ke paas paisa hona chahiye... Theek hai. Ab aapko wo loyalty... us time pe aapko 30s mein ye sab chahiye hoga. Theek hai. Ab aapko wo loyalty... us time pe aapko 30s mein ye sab chahiye hoga. Jo aapne 20s mein... aap chahte to kisi ek insaan ke saath reh sakte the. 20s mein aap agar maze liye hain aapne 20s mein,
to aap 30s mein wo cheez expect karoge to wo 30s mein ho sakta hai aapko na mile. To kehne ka matlab ye hai ki kisi ek insaan ke hoke raho, theek hai, aur ek insaan ke liye loyal raho... kyunki duniya mein mauka baar-baar milta nahi hai, acche ladke milte nahi hain aur acchi ladkiyan bhi nahi milti hain, ye cheez ladkon ke liye bhi hai.
